I know that may sound way out of place with that comment yet what I wish to convey is when I say church I mean various religions. I do hope this clears that up? Friendship! Odd how I did that but I had to because of the most shallow of places I feel I must express from within. That is through out the ages when we are taught unconditional love and love is for all humanity and love is the strong hold and foundation of life. That’s true till you see family members pitting life against one another in who is better then the other because they wish for to be the most loved and special from the rest because they want Mom or Dads attention the most. Now maybe in a few or ,(fingers crossed many more have)better relationship. The sibling rivalry so do we call this a form of unconditional love? best friends who tell their friends they are not as good as the rest of them but thats OK you can still hang with us.”You move to a place where you wish to be and that you have suddenly become better then others. How about the boyfriend what does he do when he gets to his girlfriends place and as he gets there he walks past her bedroom window and notice they are both naked and doing it. Then suddenly your heart is ripped out through your throat it feels and what and where do you say,”I must just walk away and know I once loved her. Now I would say take a deep breath and channel this energy in a different direction and then you will feel so much better. Yet the real me probably deep down inside wants to do the same as you as many other men have had the same emotion. Then to take his families life and children and turn the weapon on himself and to leave a note I loved them all unconditionally and had to do this because I loved them. There is no way to take someones life because they don’t see past a darkness that lingers deep in there hearts or the hearts of those they manipulate into doing it all and leaving you as you stand. The world is a paradox of many things going on as we look around us and see the things already taking place. Islands being flooded, wet weather where normally dry for planting. This and more going on around the world.
50 plus tornados through Kansas. the big volcano eruption, economy, Earthquakes in third world countries . Just having the knowledge that an Earth quake here they say would start in Revelstoke and come through down to Vancouver and cause a 9.1 on the scales. I sit and share this to horrify what is happening only to avoid what is happening in the Gulf and beyond.I would suggest New Orleans and all surrounding areas. only drink bottled water and that.I certainly believe this is another 9/11 cover-up except controlled by a group of men that actually said hold off fixing it. That is what was done. Now I shared all these various scenarios, except one friendship now we all have many friends now, that is a nice feeling, now say amongst these groups of friends down the road 0ne or 2 come and give you choices them or they can not hang out with you anymore? Now that is quite the list, yet, where is the Unconditional Love? How do you apply it in all these cases? Here is something I wrote back in 1980;
Cherish Choice of Love
Love is not a feeling or game to be played like a game with no rules but, to say one quits or one wishes to make rules that only they will play the game of Love by. What is love when love has so many unfounded rules to live by. To say a man loves a woman for feelings of birth and family. To have that till,” death do we part “. A relationship only to sneak about to find other relationships that have no meaning, but, of a lust that last only long enough for one quick desire of flesh. Even for a man to love a man is no different then that of a man loving a woman or a woman loving another woman. Is not love something of meaning and understanding of two people who have committed and cherished each other in a time of truth, or, was it just a moment of lust felt a the moment of desire? When I think of love, I think of friendship and a relationship of trust, understanding and knowing that it’s held lovingly and tenderly to the heart. A Heart that sings out sounds of soft sung songs of beauty and a pleasure of contentment that means never to venture to just a moment of lust without feeling. So that means tenderness is felt in the warmth of another persons arms, those feelings are feelings that go deep within. Only I, and I mean only I can feel that love and no one else can feel that deep willingness to touch that untouched feeling or tear it away from my cherished soul. The heart is one. One within it’s only moments of sweet tenderness that only one can feel openly and honestly enough to say,” this is love and a love of my own self”. A self who knows those special times of happiness, and tender dreams of feeling deep inside the memories of each hurting false love of past, yet, also moments to have and cherish, that were also tender within the heart that is like a treasure chest of love that was once gold. Gold that is filtered through the fingers and as it drifts towards the soft green velvet grass without a sound , you quickly grab onto the pieces be collected and cherished forever, locked away to be memories of those tender golden moments. Moments so long ago and yet so fresh in each new passion of which is fresh with each new love. Cherish and hold onto the time spent for today, and why it is today. What happened to yesterday and for what will happen tomorrow will not be as the happiest as the moment that is with you now. Man and woman, man and man, woman and woman. May we be yellow, black, green or blue. Whether we believe God takes us to Heaven or not. One God a spirit, one God an idol that resembles various objects of being. Yet one representing a symbol of Love that to whom every God gave to all to cherish. To my understanding love is gentle, kind , and giving. Not hurt, selfishness, and to destroy what is given as choice to cherish. I am who I want to be and give my love to who I love, and be for the person That I love. He made you in his image and gave you love from birth. So let that love be for all to share and be nourished with the thought that we are as we choose to be no matter what is going on in life. Do not let humanity destroy this love with false images of no tomorrow. Bring forth the love for there is tomorrow. Cherish choice of love today and choose the moment to change to the moment of now in love.
Dr. Ron
